As your little one grows, meal times become more challenging as you figure out the best way to feed them. Don’t overcomplicate it, it’s a lot simpler than you think.


Starting your baby on solid food is an exciting milestone, but it can also throw in a wrench to how you cook for your family.

Do you now need to prepare a separate meal for your baby to eat?

Do you need to cook two different meals: one for your family and one for your baby?

Ideally, when it comes to feeding your family, the simpler, the better – right?

While you cannot expect everyone in your family to want to eat the same things or even like everything that is being served, it is not realistic for you to be a short-order cook. Nor should you be expected to make multiple dishes for the sake of having something that everyone will want to eat. 

This is just not sustainable for your sanity.

Instead, try planning and preparing meals that your baby can eat with you by following the baby-led weaning approach.

Baby-led weaning (BLW) is a way of transitioning a baby to solid foods by allowing them to self-feed healthy, whole foods from the start. This approach allows baby to be introduced to a variety of foods while creating a positive, feeding environment where your baby learns how to eat.

With this approach, it is encouraged to offer your child whole foods right from the start, rather than spoon-feeding pureed food. This method of introducing solids allows babies to eat foods prepared for the whole family, which exposes them to a greater variety of nutrients while creating a more adaptable eater. Research has found that infants who follow the baby led weaning approach to eating are less likely to be fussy eaters, and more open to trying different foods.

Bonus: following baby-led weaning can also make meals simpler for you because you don’t need to prepare different foods for baby.

That means you can skip the purees and forego baby-food making, saving yourself time in the kitchen and money at the grocery store. With baby-led weaning, you can simply offer your baby table foods that you have already prepared for your family, provided that they are appropriate for baby. 

So how do you get started?

There’s a good chance that many of your family’s favorite meals can be deconstructed in a way that baby can safely eat, too. Serving your baby single ingredients from dishes that might be put together for your family or making other simple modifications can allow you to easily serve your baby what the whole family is eating. 

Here are a few examples of how you can modify common dishes in order to feed your littlest family member at the dinner table:


Yes, baby can enjoy this family favorite. While your family enjoys tacos in a hard or soft shell, you can serve your baby shredded chicken or cooked beef, shredded cheese, soft cooked vegetables, and avocado.

Soups, Chilis, Stews

These dishes are great, as ingredients are already soft-cooked. Scoop out meat, pasta, vegetables, beans, etc. from your prepared soup, strain from the broth and serve to baby. Easy peasy! Just be sure everything has cooled completely before giving to your baby.

Rice, Casseroles, Risottos

The soft texture and spoon-stickiness makes these dishes an excellent baby food option.

Lasagna, Pasta Dishes

Pasta dishes with soft cooked vegetables, sauce, meat and/or cheese can be perfect for sharing with baby. You can separate ingredients or simply serve as it


Many popular breakfast items are great for little fingers to grasp, including eggs, toast, pancakes, quiches, fruit, yogurt, oatmeal, and more!

Remember, the majority of family meals can somehow be modified to safely share with your baby, which means simplified cooking and meal preparation for you.

If you want to nurture healthy eating habits in your kids, starting from when they are babies, it is important to be intentional about regular family meals. This doesn’t mean you need to have every single meal together as a family, because that is not realistic.

What it does mean is that your family needs regular times to eat together to create healthy eating behaviors. You will be more likely to give your baby more chances to be exposed to a variety of foods when you are creating consistency with meal planning and feeding schedules for your family.

If this feels overwhelming, start out slow and take small, intentional steps toward creating and having family meals which your baby can also take part in. 

It doesn’t have to be perfect to be effective.

Adapted from the original article.

Crystal Karges, MS, RDN, IBCLC is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist, Board Certified Lactation Consultant, & mama of 5. With a virtual nutrition practice, Crystal helps overwhelmed mamas nurture a peaceful relationship with food & their bodies, end the battles at the dinner table and transform their kitchens to place of peace & joy. Learn more at Crystal Karges Nutrition.